Learn how to play but do not give up

winning is not so difficult. It is necessary to:.
- Know the rules of the game.
- Be persistent and patient,.
- To have a modicum of luck.

Here's a simple secret of how to win almost anything. But the play is much more complicated.

Of course, just to play - do not mind. Join the competition and give up - easily. But here's what will happen is the most interesting. Then there. ' syndrome is a loser '. I lost ept. I will not participate. I was severely inflated, and the results have cooked. These are the thoughts come to mind seems to be an intelligent and sensible people.

The next stage - the refusal of the competition. And what is the competition? . But not only, it is also a way to reveal their worth as a man capable of fighting for this leadership. You can arbitrarily make fun of. Bogdanov. and. Zhirinovsky. But people have found the courage to participate in the fight, where there was no chance of even a ghost.

Deprived of a person begins a little competition to take all of their position in life, he loses his guidance, the bar lower and up: fallen whiner, confident that no one likes, wants, and everyone is against him.

Therefore, each time in the head, you will have thought. ' it's not for me'. , Chase it away. Goals should be beyond the capability - I have already written. That's what I wrote, it's like to rise from his knees, when the life you once again showed why do you stand on the fact.

At the time, the life of me bent in such a way that I seriously thought about what life is over. More precisely, I'm at an impasse, because I do not know why I'm doing it so happened. Saved me a phrase. She is the lifeline, provided an opportunity to swim and recover. What's the phrase? .

I then studied at the third year. And perhaps the closest to the point man for me was my supervisor, in fact, he was my mentor, almost a father. Now he is deceased, was burned from stomach cancer for 3 years. But then he heard me, looked at his special understanding eyes and said, ' Dima. it should be easy to survive. '.

The simplicity of this phrase is its genius. I advise many of the hang of it in a frame above the headboard. To fall asleep with this thought -. ' whatever happens, it will be. '. It will pass, and you'll stay. So is it worth spending time on it to kill by the fact that over time will turn into dust?.

- It did not win the race? .
- It did not work with this girl? .
- It did not work this month to earn $ 1,000? .

T. e. was lost, Forums. It's simple. It remained there, in the back, remember it is not necessary. By the way, according to the observations of scientists child's brain remembers only the good and the bad weeds and driving deep into the.

But what about the experience, you say. How to recover from that constant feeling terebyaschego soul? . To make it clearer, I propose to do a little psychological training.

You lie down, close your eyes and imagine how you go in the room. In the room the white walls, white ceiling, white floor. You start to walk on it and all my hurt, pain, anger, apply black paint on the walls, ceiling and floor. So until then, until everything goes black. Then you go out, almost run out of this room and. CLOSE. the door!.

What can I say to all this. More than once I stumbled out of the blue. More than once I lost a lot and a lot of. God spared me from losing loved ones and friends, but my life has never been a bed of rose petals. And it was not always go up quickly and easily. but we must. I would be ashamed of myself if I gave the other to prove that I can break.

I guess you all know the parable of the broom, the father taught his sons to break the twig, arguing that the strength in unity. There are a continuation of this parable, the father gathered sons again and this time brought a bunch of willow twigs. And he said:. ... '. Sons, laughing, pulled down a broom in the bars and began to try to break them. Imagine their surprise that it does not work - like a floating rod in their hands, bent, escaping from a dangerous bend. Discovery stunned the children returned to her father a bunch of vines, he squeezed it in his hand and said:. ' Be flexible in their aspirations and decisions, as this vine, while the strongest shocks will not be able to break even you alone. '.